I know, right?
The whole thing about what I had said upsetting him really gave me some food for thought. Like, a lot of thought. A. Lot.
And I realized that while yes, I should be able to express myself, that in all my own hurt & dealing with everything I hadn't really given much consideration to how my words and actions might be affecting him.
And that's not right.
It might be understandable. It might be a very human thing to do. But it doesn't make it okay.
So I apologized.